Today is the 3rd weeks that I had stopped talking to Mum, 4 months that I stopped talking to my Connie and Jenny. Connie and Jenny hold grudges on me that they hated me due to my over-responsiblity , sometimes, I do wonder ? Am I the only one that went through such ordeal, being single caused me into such predicament . Why do I bother is there anyone taking care of my mum ? If I dun ! I'll branded as selfish , not taking care of Mum . If I do ? I dun have the time, who will pay me for the day that I stay at home ? If I dun work , who pay for salary ? If I ask them to take, still they brand me as selfish. They can choose not to take care of mum but not me, just because I am single . Single is a fault. To mum, I feel utterly disappointed that she didnt understand what I have dun for her, yet the return branded me as being unreasonable.

When I saw mum chitted chatted with my maid happily, I didnt blame her, but I believe all my sibling will not be pleased that she is too closed with my maid. Again, they will cristicise .
Relationship growth ! Anyone will be closer with someone who is with you and taking care of you 24 hrs a day versus someone only meet each 2 hrs a month.

Shouldnt they do some reflection and improve the situation than keep blaming on someone !